Showing posts with label Bookworm. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bookworm. Show all posts

Monday, February 8, 2010

I Have a Bit of a Crush on Ben...


I posted awhile back about reading through some of the classics this year. You know, you don't just happen to read Walden (my husband swears nobody really reads it anyway!) or The Iliad, so I decided to be purposeful about it. My plan was to read 12 this year, and figuring if I do that for the next 9 years I'll have made it through over 100 of them. A good goal, and very doable I thought. That's one a month. (And if I make it through one classic each month, I'm free to read anything else I want for fun - right now: The Underneath by Kathi Appelt.)

It's February 8 and I've made it through three already! Ethan Frome was okay - interesting to me the story line of someone who chose poorly in marriage, then regretted it, and went to dramatic measures to rectify the situation, only making matters worse in the long run. Some things just don't change, do they?

I have to admit I didn't love Kidnapped - maybe you need to be a ten year old boy to really enjoy it, or have it read to you by someone who's willing to change the voices, making themselves sound a bit like Johnny Depp. But I read it all the same. (My favorite quote from it, BTW, "‘keep your breath to cool your porridge." which I think equates to today's 'don't waste your breath'.)

Next I read the Autobiography of Ben Franklin - I LOVED that book! When I'd tell my husband, for the ninety-ninth time that I hearted it and the man, he'd ask, 'is it exciting?' Well, not exactly exciting. But really, really interesting. I think the ten year old boy in him would have preferred Kidnapped.  Like everybody else I'd heard the stories, and seen the pictures of him standing out in a lightning storm with a kite and a key. Somehow I didn't realize he started the first library, the first hospital, the first fire department, and many other accomplishments we benefit from and take for granted today. He was as much an inventor as he was a politician, and I loved reading of his efforts to end slavery.

I didn't realize he invented bifocals. The first thing I check out, when we move, is the public library. When our current town was building a new one, I drove by many, many times just to check it out - you'd have thought they were putting in a new outlet mall or something. But if Ben hadn't invented bifocals I wouldn't be able to look across our grocery store at the labels on the aisles to find a certain product, then once there be able to actually read the ingredients on the label, those written in the right size for a mouse. With the same pair of cute green glasses. Bifocals are just cuter if you get them in a fun color or get animal print on the templates or some such thing. So thanks, Ben, for bifocals.

Here's what Ben had to say about starting the first library:

“I drew up plans for a public library financed by membership fees. …. It took a lot of work but I managed to find 50 people interested in reading and wealthy enough to pay the 40 shilling initiation fee and commit to paying 10 shillings a year thereafter for the next 50 years. Thus our library began with meager funds. … Later reading became fashionable and libraries began to benefit from the donations of wealthy patrons. As the colonies lacked public amusements like theater or horse racing, many people chose to read in their spare time. After a few years, visitors observed that the colonial people were generally more intelligent and more literate than people of the same class in other countries.”
Poor Richard (Ben) also said, “The noblest question in the world is What Good may I do in it?” I'd say he did quite a bit, much more than I realized. Great read, highly recommend it. Believe it or not, I had to put my name on a waiting list for it at our public library - which seems quite appropriate to me.

If you want to know more about him, read the book, or go here for a quick overview. Then read the book.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Concert Gone Awry


From One Month to Live, 

'When you wake up in the morning, it's vital to start your day right by just talking to God. As Hudson Taylor put it, don't have your concert first and tune your instruments afterward.'

In my book, that's worth remembering!



Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Too Good Not to Share

It caught my eye as I was walking by the bookstore door. The title was so catching that it, well, it caught me! One Month to Live by Kerry and Chris Shook.   I'm still barely into it but there are a few quotes just too good not to share:

'God created us to take risks, in faith, and to conquer the giants that paralyze us with fear.'

'For some of you, the last six months have seemed like the longest six months of your life because you have no energy and no passion for life.' How would you describe your current season of life? Does it feel like you're buried beneath frozen tundra, emotionally hibernating? Or is it more like spring, with signs of new life in view?

'The mundane can become magnificent if we're plugged into each hour and each other.'

And last (for now)...

'If you waste your time, you waste your life.'

I'm telling you - great stuff!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Classic Reads and Icicle Impalement




I've been accused of reading "How to Make a Meatloaf" and that may be because I did in fact read "How to Breastfeed Your Baby" three times, but give me a break - I had three babies. Because I tend to lean towards non-fiction and that can make for a dull, boring person, last year I resolved to lean heavy on fiction. I made it through about 20, mostly 'popular' reads and it was a fun reading year!

This year I'm going with the same resolution (fiction), choosing classic books, with a goal of 12 - one a month - surely The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin counts as much as two of the typical fiction? I went to this website to get a list of the top classic books. There are 108 and I'm happy to say I can check off 22 of them, 1/5 of the way! (I pulled up Random House's 'modern classics' but was pretty turned off when I investigated some of the books - either too futuristic or bordering on obscene - don't get me started on Gravity's Rainbow!)If I'd attended college it's likely more would be checked off this list, but alas that's spilt milk and no use spending time there.

So as soon as I finish People of the Book (leftover from 2009), I'm jumping into my first classic read of 2010. Here's my list for the year, and since January is already half over I better get hopping to it.

Ethan Frome, Edith Wharton (starting with this one - it's 70 pages long)
The Autobiography of Ben Franklin (Ben Franklin)
Daisy Miller, Henry James
Frankenstein, Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley
Howards End, E. M. Forster
The Iliad, Homer
Ivanhoe, Sir Walter Scott
Kidnapped, Robert Louis Stevenson
Lord Jim, Joseph Conrad
My 'Antonia, Willa Cather
Uncle Tom's Cabin, Harriet Beecher Stowe
Walden, Henry David Thoreau

They're in no order. I'll mix up heavier and lighter, and if I finish more than one a month I can grab a popular read to enjoy too.

What are you reading? Feel free to share non-classics as I'm hoping to squeeze in a few of those too.

BTW, that's the scene outside our window this morning - the front page of the newspaper had a 'chicken little' warning to watch for falling icicles up to four feet long - crazy winter - but that means it's warming up today!

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Play Nice and Act Like a Lady....


My girls have heard this so many times, it rolls off their tongues with ease. I don't know where I came up with it, but anytime they'd leave home for an event, it would be my last words to them as they were slipping out the door.

I think it's still good advice. So when I saw this book at the airport, waiting to catch my plane, I grabbed it. I don't know a thing about the authors, but I'm enjoying it.

Here's their list - a Lady DOES:

Arrive on time
Send thank you notes and emails
Know the difference between assertive and rude
Make the first move
Laugh at herself
Know how to party and also how to throw a great one
Reduce, reuse, and recycle
Stay true to herself
Set an example for others
Know how and when to flirt
Have style

And a Lady DOESN'T:

Stay silent when someone is being hurtful
Curse in front of children
Betray a friend's or partner's trust
Groom at the table
Play the 'helpless damsel' (since she's not one)
Gossip
Lose her cool or scream
Take herself too seriously
Date her friend's ex
Think the world revolves around her
Sell herself short

Written by Noelle Cleary and Dini Von Mueffling, described as 'the revolutionary guide to living your life with grace, brains, fearlessness and style'. Good stuff so far. I bought it at the airport but you can likely find it at any bookstore, or Amazon, where I buy books when I'm not waiting on airplanes.

'Play nice and act like a lady' - I think it's still valid advice, whether we're staying inside our home with those who may not have much of a choice about spending the day with us, or if we've sprayed on our most expensive cologne and are heading out to see the town. Just my take on it, for what it's worth.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

So Many Books...So Little Time

I love making resolutions, so at the end of 2008 I resolved to read only Fiction for all of 2009. Having a tendency towards non-fiction, I knew it would be a stretch for me, right up there with doing 100 sit-ups a day, so I didn't resolve about the sit-ups. A girl can only live with so much failure.

I also resolved to only read books from the library, or lends from friends, rather than break the bank at Amazon and Barnes and Noble. I've done better on that count.

You can see on my sidebar what I've read so far. Considering our crazy life so far this year, I surprise myself that I've managed to read 14 in 2009, and it's only August. My goal is to have 24 under my belt by the time Dick Clark comes out and the ball drops. I've snuck in a few NF here and there, but mostly I've stuck to my guns, and it's been such great fun! Surprising to me, it hasn't been entertainment over education, but rather a saucy mix of both.

I went on a Jodi Picoult kick, after shunning her for years. Read My Sister's Keeper and was dying to see the movie (sorry for the pun), but missed it in the hullabaloo of moving. So we'll get it from RedBox or Netflix. Plain Truth was out in made for TV movie but I can't seem to find it. That's okay, as is usually the case, I've heard the book is better than the movie, actually in both cases. Darn those screen-writers, they flip the endings to suit themselves, and Jodi sure never worries about an ending pleasing anyone.

So I'm taking a bit of a JP break, and mixing it up a bit. Here's what I've got checked out or on request at our local library:

People of the Book, Geraldine Brooks
Suite Francaise, Irene Nemirovsky
Dewey: The Small Town Library Cat Who Touched the World, Vicki Myron
Summertime, Raffaella Barker
Modoc - True Story of Greatest Elephant That Ever Lived, Ralph Helfer
Story of Edgar Sawtelle, David Wroblewski

I heard about the first two at a birthday party recently, from a woman who's belonged to book clubs for years. Both sound like great reads.

I stumbled on Dewey while searching for something else on our library's website. Sounds delicious.

Summertime is a sequel to Hens Dancing, suggested by my daughter, Sarah. Have to read the sequel because HD was delightful.

Modoc lent to me by a very dear friend. Hubby snatched it up, but it looks to be a short read and I have a stack to get through right now anyway, so I'll be generous.

Edgar Sawtelle - I saw it on the NYT bestseller list, and decided to jump in. Checked it out, hubby - who never reads what I do - saw the cover and took it right out of my hands. After a renewal we had to return it, but he was deep within its covers by then, so we bit the $22 bullet and ordered it from Amazon. I mentioned it to Sarah while we were in Texas, she ran to the library and consumed it in three days, was overwrought by the ending which intrigues the living daylights out of me, Don finished it and declared it a great read, so now, finally, it's sitting on MY nightstand, patiently waiting. If you're looking for something to read, I'd strongly suggest this one, even though I haven't read it myself. Just please don't ask to borrow my copy!
So Many Books - So Little Time. Oh yeah, I have time and football season is just around the corner. As long as I keep producing chili and seven layer dip and such things, I can curl up in a corner for three hour blocks and read to my little heart's content.

That'll put me at 20 books for the year once I wade through them all. So any other suggestions for my last 4? What have you read this year that kept you up nights, caused your family to go unfed? I want to read books THAT good! And I'm not a legalist, but mostly I'm looking at fiction, trying to stick to my resolve here. And if you do 100 sit-ups every night before bed, please don't even tell me.


Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Life is too short

to finish a book that doesn't make me give up sleep. I just did not love Knit Two. Within a few pages of starting it, I was weary of trying to mentally keep track of all the characters, the drama that was going on in their lives, and I somehow knew every single one of them would have it all worked out by the end of the book.

There are so many good books out there, and I'm sure some of you will jump up defending this particular one, but it just didn't do anything for me. I made it through Friday Night Knit Club and actually enjoyed it, but when I picked this one up, I realized I'd forgotten every single character..

So I'm shaking the dust off my feet and moving on! Next in line is My Sister's Keeper, by Jodi Picoult. I rarely read her books (my sister has ready every single one I believe) but this particular story, about a child conceived to donate bone marrow (I believe) for her older sister who is battling cancer, sounds like something that will grab me. And as soon as I finish the book, we'll be off to the theater since it's coming out as a movie.

So many (good) books, so little time. Knit Two has a hold on it at the library, and maybe the next person in line will feel completely different about it. Just my opinion. Did anyone out there read it, and did you love it or hate it or somewhere in between? And if you read My Sisters Keeper, what did you think of it? Am I going to stay up too late with this one?

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Above all things I love....

Books. Since I was six and learned to decipher those markings on the paper, I've spent hours with my nose in a book. I started with Dick and Jane and Spot, moved to My Friend Flicka and Misty of Chincoteague, then every single Nancy Drew and Perry Mason and Nurse Sue Barton. I moved on to autobiographies, biographies, historical novels, non-fiction on everything under the sun. I'm surprised I don't have a permanent crook in my neck from the time spent walking up and down the aisles of the local library, with my head turned sideways, reading the book spines.

I just flat love books. I actually read Catcher in the Rye three times, trying to understand how a teenage boy really thinks. You'd think three readings would have helped me avoid a crummy boyfriend or two along the way. I'd rather spend an hour in Barnes and Noble than any shoe store on earth (having feet as big as a boat may have something to do with that.) I've been known to move monies from the clothing accrual to the office one, where book money is held and often depleted.

Snuggled right in the middle of six kids, surrounded by four hooligan boys, I found refuge from the storm of a busy house through reading. For some reason I was sick - a lot. Nothing terribly frightening other than a few bouts of pneumonia but I was 'the puny one'. I spent hours and hours reading all thirteen volumes of Childcraft, front to back. Even World Book encyclopedias just fascinated me.

So today - between snow storms - I bundled up and headed out for a day out of the house. There were prescriptions to pick up, some returns at the mall, packages to ship, and our favorite oh-so-classy wine in a box to pick up. But before all that, I headed to the public library.

I just finished last night, slowly on purpose, the last seven pages of Snow Flower and the Secret Fan. As I read the last chapter, a line jumped from the page: "It's hard to be truly generous and behave in a forthright manner when you don't know how." How's that for something to chew on? Reading author notes, and bookclub discussion questions (I read ALL of a book!) I saw that the author has apparently written a sequel, "Peony in Love", the name of the last character in Snow Flower. I added my name to the library's waiting list. You can't beat 'free' for a book, and they told me I'm next in line!

Inside a little notebook my daughter, Sarah gave me to keep track of books I've read and those next in line, I jotted a quote from "500 Great Books by Women':
We read to learn, to feel, to stretch beyond our own lives, to escape and to understand. A book has the power to reach back toward us and let us know we are not alone. Up from a flat page of type comes joy or anger or sadness, a sentence that soars, or an image that surprises like a photograph long forgotten. For a few hundred pages we can feel new rhythms, see new images, learn about ourselves, become someone else."
Exactly. The book I chose, to bring home as my #3 Fiction Read of 2009 - "Understood Betsy". It's a book Sarah is reading to her children, written in 1917. By venturing over to the children's section once in awhile I get to relive my own childhood, all over again. Minus the pneumonia.

I've said it before, but it bears repeating, "Thank you, Mom, for taking me to that library over and over and over, for making sure that whatever else may have been lacking in my life, books were not. xoxoo"

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Pay it Forward: Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

Reading is my first love, above all other hobbies (not above people, just hobbies). I'd bet my sister would say the same (especially now that she sews, 8 hours a day, for a living).

We generally read very different types of books. Once in awhile we hit on the same book, or author, but I can't remember when, if ever, we overlapped.

I mentioned in a post awhile back that I was reading Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society, posted a few quotes, and she got hooked! She ordered the book, she started it after me, and she finished first. But then, she is the older sister, so maybe that's okay. I happened to see the book at Half-Priced Books and snatched it up.

I'm finished with the book, she's finished with the book, and we both have an extra copy - In my brain, I'm hearing "Sisters, Sisters......" Since we read them at the same time, we decided to give them away together too, minus the feather boas and dancing routine.

Written by an older woman, Mary Ann Shaffer, her first book ever (and don't you love it when someone does that and it ends up #1 on the NY Times Bestseller List!), and her niece Annie Barrows, it's clean, sweet, precious, dear with a solid story line that involves the island of Guernsey, in the English Channel and World War II.

I stayed up way too late some nights reading as fast as I could, and other times I read slowly on purpose, especially the ending. It's an ending that is perfect to savor in a hot bubble bath, with a glass of wine or diet coke - pick your poison.

You can enter by leaving a comment that will allow me to contact you. You're also quite welcome to go over to my sister, Barb's blog, and enter there too. We'll both draw Monday morning bright and early (although my early is two hours before hers.)

P.S. Happy Birthday sweet Dan. You can open your presents now!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Delicious Quote from Guernsey Literary & Potato Peel Pie Society

I had to share one quote from this most delicious book:

"While I question her taste, her judgment, her misplaced priorities, and her inappropriate sense of humor, she does indeed have one fine quality - she is honest. If she says she will honor the good name of your literary society, she will do so. I can say no more."

Is that not the perfect way to describe someone you respect, but don't particularly enjoy?!

Indeed, it's already jotted down in my quote notebook, with a name or two beside it. It's a good reminder to recognize the good in others, even when I have to look hard. I imagine others have to do the same with me on a regular basis!

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Mustard Seeds


I'm over here today, at Five Minutes for Books, doing my last review on Mustard Seeds, Thoughts on the Nature of God and Faith, by author Lynn Coulter. My much-marked-up copy is staying on my devotional shelf, but if you'd like to learn more about it, click on the link above.

I loved this collection of 15 essays, and suspect many of you will also. It would be a nice addition to your morning devotion basket, or maybe as a gift for someone special this Christmas?

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Here's what I gleaned from....

A Wife After God's Own Heart, by Elisabeth George:

#1 First things first - my own relationship with God - how is it? I can't work on anything else til I'm sure that's growing in the direction it needs to be. Like any other relationship, it requires time invested, time spent together, regularly.

#2 DH and I need to be a team, and someone has to be in charge. God said DH is, whether I like that every single day, whether the rest of the world out there agrees or not. He leads, I follow. My job is to help, follow, respect and love him. I don't worry over what his job is, I just do mine. Our team comes before anything else in life, except our own personal relationships with God.

#3 We need to communicate well, and there's always going to be room for improvement. My words are to be soft, sweet, suitable and scant. My son, who is soft-spoken and short on words, told me he decided years ago not to talk much because he realized he'd get in less trouble that way. Smart boy!

#4 Continue to make intimacy a priority, even if it means getting out the calendar and scheduling it. If I'm continually 'too tired' then I need to look at my priorities.....DH has told me he thinks as we get older, there are many areas that fit the 'use it or lose it' bill, and this is one!

#5 My money is his money. If I am wasting my money I'm wasting his money too. How we spend our money is a great megaphone of where our heart is. We decided many years ago, (after I bought a new washer without consulting him) if an item was $100 or more then we'd discuss it with the other before making a purchase. I think that's still a good rule to follow.

#6 Make the bed, every day. Our home is to be a refuge, a welcoming place to come in from the storm of life. Little things make a difference. Again, if I don't 'have time' to care for our home then I need to look at how I'm spending my time. Making beds, making a to-do list every day, planning menus, etc. all honor DH's efforts to provide for us, and make our home a nicer place to spend time.

#7 My relationship with my children continues after they are grown, and comes before all other relationships except that with my husband. I loved reading this! My children, and their spouses and their children - time, money, prayer - all are to continue to be invested in them. Elisabeth called it, 'befriending' them. This was one of my favorite chapters in the book, especially now that our children are grown and a delight to spend time with.

#8 Serving the Lord falls after my personal relationship with God, my husband, my children. I'm to make sure I'm baking cookies that stay at home before I'm busy baking cookies to deliver to VBS. This one area is so easy to mess up, and I'd love some redo on it. I don't get any do-overs, but I can look at my calendar today and be sure it's in order. I'm to serve, but not at a level that causes me to neglect higher priorities.

Overall, great book, very readable, very encouraging!